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Barrier Methods

Condoms

Condoms offer protection and are easy to use. When used correctly, they are one of the safest forms of birth control and can protect you from HIV/STI's and unplanned pregnancy.

Latex condoms come in different sizes and shapes, and have features like ribs, colors and different flavors. They come dry or lubricated. They are made out of rubber.

Polyurethane condoms are a little more expensive and are made of thin, flexible plastic. Polyurethane condoms are a good option for anyone allergic to latex.

The female condom, which is made of non-latex material, is being used by more and more people. For more information, go to www.fc2femalecondom.com

Lamb skin condoms have pores and do not protect you from getting HIV and other STDs because the pores allow germs to pass from one person to the other. They do offer protection against pregnancy and are another option if you're allergic to latex. They are more expensive than latex or polyurethane condoms.

How To Use A Condom

Before sex:

  • check the expiration date
  • check the package for damage
  • open the package carefully so you don't rip or puncture the condom
  • make sure the condom will unroll the right way before putting it on the penis
  • to keep the condom from feeling dry, add a drop of water-based lubricant
  • pinch the tip to leave room for semen
  • when the penis is erect, unroll the condom all the way down to the base
  • smooth out any air bubbles

During intercourse:

  • check to make sure the condom stays on
  • add extra water-based lubricant if needed

After ejaculation:

  • don't remain inside your partner too long (condom is likely to slip off)
  • hold the base of the condom while pulling out
  • move away from partner, take condom off, tie it, and throw it away in the garbage

Important tips:

  • when a man becomes erect, the pre-cum on the tip of the penis is enough to transmit HIV, STI's, or get a woman pregnant
  • dry or flavored condoms should not be used for vaginal or anal intercourse
  • using two condoms increases their chances of breaking
  • never reuse a condom

Dental Dams

A dental dam is a thin, square piece of latex that prevents body fluids from being passed during oral sex (mouth on vagina or anus). Place the dental dam against the vagina or anus. Be careful not to flip it over while using it or your mouth will come into contact with the side that was touching your partner.

Reasons to use a dental dam:

  • helps prevent HIV and other STDs
  • they come in flavors!

What makes using dental dams challenging:

  • the dental dam is not reusable
  • tasting rubber
  • it's tricky to get used to and may take time to become comfortable using one

Important tips:

  • You can make your own dental dam by cutting a dry or flavored condom into a square. Don't use a condom with nonoxynol 9 for oral sex! It will numb your mouth.

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